I have returned from a road trip to NSW visiting many friends and relatives, as well as my main project of sorting through my mother’s unit. I have been away nearly three months and, while I had visions of writing a lot while away, I became so busy the blog posts just didn’t happen. I became engrossed in living life and as such … there simply wasn’t time.
I stayed at Mum’s unit most of the time and re-connected with those in her neighbourhood and community, as well as getting myself into a fairly healthy routine of a morning walk of about an hour and another half hour walk each afternoon.
I had a nostalgic transportation back in time. All aspects of my life became intermingled as I sorted through Mum’s things, and I explored my old neighbourhood. I rediscovered my grandparents through their letters and photos. I lived in a bygone era as I read my mother’s diaries of the war and depression – a time that I had never lived in and my mother had kept alive – an era that had died with her death which became alive again as I sorted through her things. I relived my childhood and my teenage years each day walking the length and breadth of my old childhood town. I spent valuable time with my siblings, some cousins and close friends.
Most importantly, however, I had a break from the “restructuring” of my life, that has been ongoing for the past four and a half years. I spent 10 weeks staying still, living for the day, and drinking in those small moments of contentment each and every day. For 10 weeks I put aside the practicalities of my own life changes ahead and simply was … me.
I had a fantastic time.
I hope to catch up with you all over the coming weeks.
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It was the right time … and perhaps still is.
There is no rush to do anything at all!
Welcome back Elizabeth. I am glad you had a great time.
Thanks for your wishes. Sorry that I have been out of touch. I have been SO busy. I hope to catch up soon.
It sounds like you did exactly what you needed to do, Elizabeth. Living for the day can inspire us to make things right in the future. π
Thanks for your wishes. Sorry I have been out of touch. I have been SO busy. I hope to catch up with everyone soon. π
Welcome back – I also have warm memories of sorting through my mother’s things.
Thanks for your warm wishes.
As I read this post I could clearly see that you are continually growing and healing through living. I too found healing and comfort through reconnecting to the past and then moving forward with new promise for my future. π
Thanks for your warm wishes.
Oh, I’m cheering you on:). I love that you were living each day and moment, taking a break from life restructuring. We all need that! Restorative:).
Thanks for your wishes. I have been quite busy and out of touch. I hope to get back again now.