40 TRANSITIONS TO MY TRUTH
I transitioned to my new life by affirming those parts I would hold onto, those I would let go of, and those parts I would transform. I truly faced the trauma I had been through and was still going through, and adjusted to the still strong emotions surrounding it. From that point I was able to begin again. I found my voice and began speaking my truth. I began contributing to my family and the wider society in an enlightened manner. These are the transitions I took in the transformation to the new me for my new and exciting tomorrow.
- HOLDING ON # 1: My priorities
- HOLDING ON # 2: My resources
- HOLDING ON # 3: My character and personality
- HOLDING ON # 4: Clash of values, Justice versus Mercy
- HOLDING ON # 5: Wisdom,
- LETTING GO # 1: Unwanted passengers,
- LETTING GO # 2: Stripping Back the Layers to my bare self
- LETTING GO: # 3: Feelings of Despair
- LETTING GO # 4: Ticking the boxes.
- LETTING GO # 5: Unmasked – who I really am
- MOVING ON # 1: The truth shall set me free
- MOVING ON # 2: Freedom. Accepting and solving my challenges
- MOVING ON # 3: Healing the Pain of Betrayal
- MOVING ON # 4: The influence of divorce on needs
- MOVING ON # 5: Divorce and families, weddings, and rainbows
- MY RESOLUTIONS # 1: The seeds sown
- MY RESOLUTIONS # 2: Live by my values
- MY RESOLUTIONS # 3: Courage
- MY RESOLUTIONS # 4: Adjusting my vision
- THE ENERGY OF CHANGE: The energy of change
- TRANSITIONS # 1: Certainty from uncertainty
- TRANSITIONS # 2: From resentment to conviction
- TRANSITIONS # 3: From resistance to bouncing forward
- TRANSITIONS # 4: Overloaded and overwhelmed
- TRANSITIONS # 5: From anxiety to calm
- THE FINAL SEPARATION: Patience and Perseverance
- THE FINAL SEPARATION:The aloneness of decisions from choices
- THE FINAL SEPARATION: from Trauma to transformation
- THE FINAL SEPARATION: almost there
- THE FINAL SEPARATION: It is signed, Ok, so now what?
- FINDING MY VOICE: A moment in time. Finding my voice.
- FINDING MY VOICE: Peace and Fairness
- FINDING MY VOICE: Feelings, Loneliness and daffodils
- FINDING MY VOICE: I see the light and the light is me
- SPEAKING MY TRUTH: Seeing things differently
- SPEAKING MY TRUTH:To begin at the beginning
- SPEAKING MY TRUTH: I believe
- SPEAKING MY TRUTH:Blue skies ahead
- PROMOTE HUMAN KINDNESS: Caring for mother joy within sadness
- MY VISION:
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This was an amazing list, Elizabeth. I was looking at the top of your page where I have read some of your pages before. I don’t remember seeing this and hope others will read this valuable way to process change and overcome challenges. (This can be for other challenges than divorce. It is a fantastic list, which includes the emotions you went through, but could also help someone to feel ‘normal’ by going through them, too.)
I liked the way you showed your steps, from losing yourself, to awakening, making resolutions, transitioning and finally the transformation. You could be an excellent counselor while still being very neutral, Elizabeth. Sometimes we all need to be reminded “to have,” “to be,” “to do” and “to give.” I liked this very much. Hugs, Robin
Yes, I have revamped my blog a bit so that is why it is a bit different. I have made this page recently. I will wind it into a post soon