INDIVIDUAL Me

Finding me

After the ending of ‘we’, which in reality took forty weeks, I began to reflect on who I was, those inner parts of me. From that point I had an epiphany, a realization that I wasn’t living true to myself, that part of me deep inside. I went through a second grief period, mourning the loss of me, until I gradually awakened from my self-reflection and began to listen to my own voice, see things through my eyes and I moved on to living by my true self.

1. Who am I: I am a woman. 58 years old. I an introvert, a survivor with my own identity.
2. My values – # 1 Trust
3. My values – # 2 Empathy
4. My values – # 3 Dependable
5. My values – # 4 Compassion
6. My values # 5 Integrity
7. My beliefs # 1 Peace
8. My beliefs # 2 Freedom
9. My beliefs # 3 Family
10. My beliefs # 4, 5, 6 Democracy, Social Justice, Ethical Science
11. My attitudes # 1 Hope;
12. My attitudes # 2 Optimism;
13. My attitudes # 3 Grace and Dignity;
14. My attitudes # 4 Courage;
15. My attitudes # 5 Be Pro-active;
16. My attitudes # 6 Plan, Plan, Plan and Let It Be;
17. My attitudes # 7 One step at a time;
18. My attitudes # 8 Tenacity. Climb every mountain;
19. My attitudes # 9 Resilience. Bouncing Back;
20. My attitudes # 10. Humility. Water melting rock
21. Interlude Coming home to calm 
22. My needs introduction.
23. My needs # 1 Good health
24. My needs # 2. Stability
25. My needs # 3. Financial security
26. My needs # 4. Connections
27. My needs # 5. Meaningful Projects
28. My needs # 6. My need to be needed
29. My wants
30. This is MY Life. My Epiphany
31. The Phoenix
32. LOSS OF ME # 1 Trans-formative Grief,
33. LOSS OF ME # 2 Grieving self,
34. LOSS OF ME # 3 Losing and Discovering Self,
35. MY AWAKENING # 1 Springtime,
36. MY AWAKENING # 2 Out of My cocoon
37. MY AWAKENING # 3: My purpose
38. MY AWAKENING # 4: Listening to my own voice.
39. MY AWAKENING # 5: Seeing through my eyes
40. MY AWAKENING